My Practical Philosophy Workshops apply philosophical wisdom from the world's greatest thinkers to practical issues in everyday life.
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Should I Have A(nother) Kid? The Moral Question
We live in troubled times. Climate change, political upheaval, and the global population boom can weigh heavily in the decision about whether or not have to a(nother) child. This workshop will provide some tools and perspectives for thinking through this life-creating decision.
We will go beyond simple “pro” and “con” lists to consider the ethical grounding for this decision. What responsibilities do we have and to whom? How important is our own happiness or the happiness of our potential children? Is rational thought a good guide or should we just go with our “gut” (and how do we know what it says)?
At a moment in history when we have more control than ever over our reproductive choices, the question of whether or not to bring a child into the world is more pressing than ever. You’re not alone. Come discuss with others.
Thurs., Nov. 7, 7-8:30pm
1110 SE Alder St. #301
Early bird: $39 before 10/24
The Meaning of Motherhood
Mom groups and classes typically cover how-to logistical issues like how to swaddle a baby or how to manage difficult behavior in your child. But there are deep psychological, emotional, and philosophical issues around becoming and being a mother that deserve more of our attention:
What is lost and gained in the transition to motherhood? What are the cultural messages around being a good mom or bad mom? What does it mean to create a new human consciousness?
The Meaning of Motherhood explores these complex philosophical questions with compassion, openness, and intellectual curiosity.
WEEK 1: THE BIRTH OF THE MOTHER
The transition to motherhood is perhaps one of the biggest changes in a life, full of overwhelming and confusing emotions, huge physical changes, and profound mental shifts, but often doesn’t get the kind of recognition it deserves. In week 1, we’ll discuss the identity of motherhood and what it means to develop this new identity. What is lost, what is gained, and how do we understand the transition to motherhood?
WEEK 2: GOOD MOM/BAD MOM
There are so many responsibilities, expectations, and judgments around what it means to be a mother. In week 2, we’ll explore, and challenge, some of the personal and cultural messages that we carry around that inform our judgments about what a good or bad mom is, and how these messages can impact the self-image and well-being of mothers.
WEEK 3: A NEW CONSCIOUSNESS
How do you wrap your head around making a person? How do you relate to a child with whom you are so intimately connected, but who has a distinct and unique experience with independent thoughts, desires, fears, and hopes. In week 3, we’ll explore how this creation of life can raise a deep sense of vulnerability, anxiety, and confusion about the meaning of mortality and human existence.
WEEK 4: RAISING WISDOM
Our experiences provide us a kind of knowledge that we simply couldn’t have any other way. In week 4, we’ll discuss how the experiences of motherhood provide new insight and deeper understanding of the human experience, particularly with respect to time, compassion, love, and meaning.
Is this course for me?
You do not need to identify as a mother to take this course. Although it may be particularly poignant for those who are about to become, are considering becoming, or who have already become mothers, it will be illuminating for anyone who wants to better understand the emotional, psychological, and philosophical complexities of motherhood, including partners, caretakers, and perinatal professionals.
In addition, this course recognizes that there are many paths to motherhood, many types of families, and many gender expressions that intersect with the identity of motherhood. During the course, we will be likely discussing some physical components of pregnancy, birth, and the postpartum experience that impact many moms, while also understanding that this is not everyone's experience.
Mondays, February 3, 10, 17, and 24, 2020
The Ready Set Grow Café | 5429 NE 30th Ave, Portland, OR 97211
$225, Early bird: $199 until January 13, 2020. Registration closes January 27, 2020.
Register with a friend and get 25% off with promo code FRIEND25.
Maximum of 15 participants. Scholarships available for those experiencing financial hardship; send email to email@example.com to inquire. Priority will be given to those from marginalized communities, including people of color and LBGTQ people, as well as single parents.
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